Setting up your profile
Your Pay Per Match profile needs to be informative and appealing, yet stand out from the crowd in some way. In fact, it should reflect the true you as much as possible. Now, there are some do's and don'ts where online dating profiles are concerned, so let's look at those more closely.

» Photos - It is important to put up at least one picture of yourself on your profile page. With a picture in place - even a bad picture - you're profile will get viewed ten times more than a profile without one. With Pay Per Match sites you can choose to to have your pictures verified. This feature assures the users that it is really you.

» Name - Using an online nickname is ok, but you should reveal your first name in your profile. By revealing your first name this makes you appear more honest and open. Without a name, people may be led to believe you're a fake. Do not reveal your full name in any online dating profile. You never know who might come across it. Always use caution with how much personal information you reveal online on any online dating site.

» Tell us about yourself - This is not about how many words you can fit on a page. It's best to summarize who you are in just a paragraph or two. Stay upbeat and don't complain about failed relationships and a cheating ex etc.
It is important not to reveal anything overly personal when you are putting information about yourself in your online dating profile. It's ok to explain what profession you're in for example, but not to specify the exact job you do, company you work for or location you work in. Likewise there's no problem stating the area you live in, but don't include your home address or phone number.

» What are you looking for? - This section allows you to explain why you're creating this online dating profile. Do you want friends? Frequent dates? A romantic relationship? A life partner? Summarize those desires here, without going into intimate details. You want to make sure you've left things to talk about.

» What are your likes and dislikes? - This part is used to explain things you like or don't like in a mate or friend, or for general likes and dislikes. Don't make a long list, just put the top 5 or 10 as a starting place.

HINT: Your Pay Per Match online dating profile is designed to generate interest from the type of men or women you're looking for. Keep it upbeat and positive. When done well, an online dating profile can generate lots of interest.

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